She puts everyone before me. And for the first few years it was great. She promised she would try. On one hand what Athol is saying in this post kinda smarts. And my love language is touch.
9 Surprising Reasons Your Wife Doesn’t Want To Have Sex With You
Last year, we probably had sex 3 times, 4 at most. As one poster put it, men need sex for love and that is precisely the case. I really want to make her feel good. You do NOT have to participate of course, and we will understand. Who decreed that grown adults who have already had children should be making love several times a week? Your wife married you because she decided her life would be richer and more meaningful with you as a partner.
Sexual Rejection's Effect On A Marriage
I have prayed for 35 years for God to change me every where I need changing, I have prayed for God to take away my need for sex. Based on what you identified above 1 , think and pray about what change would look like. I feel I am reaching the same point again but I am not sure it is really a solution. This takes courage, but brings freedom. And then when certain times of the month come around, suddenly she gets amorous and wants me to be suddenly interested in sex. The notion that a woman would sleep with a guy for years, give birth to his offspring but then abruptly deem him unworthy of her vagina because he held her purse one day or ran an errand for her seems patently absurd. First I will say if there is a legitimate medical issue or abuse of any kind or if you are in a relationship with a lazy dead beat partner, I would not blame any woman for not wanting to have sex with that partner.
Im very close to switching off. My wife has complained to me about this and I have explained to her how I feel. I have been married for 13 years and even on my honeymoon had to coax sex from my husband. It is reality and fantasy. That is a boy who never grew up and knows nothing of how to love or treat a woman.